Question and Answers!

I thought I would in fact type in a few words here about a thing that continues to plague me.
As a person I might not be the most interesting person you would come across.Time and again I have come across people telling me that I am an introvert and haughty.People have told me that I am unapproachable(a serious personality) . So I would obviously not be the first choice if anybody(to be more precise a girl) in a party would want to talk to.Added to this I am not blessed with neither a great personality nor exceptional talent.

But when I ruminate about my short comings I kind of analysed a few things.I dont really take the initiative when it comes to talking to strangers.At the maximum it would just be a exchange of greetings and I would shut off.Moreover I kind of take a long time to get into interesting conversations with new people. Most of my close friends know me as a friendly,approachable and at times cheerful persona.But then looks like I take quite some time to throw off the facade of a fictious character that people relate me with initially.(atleast according to me!)

Many times I have seen that I tend not to make the first effort to go upfront and talk.This seems to be my personality...! Put me in a party then you would find me just observing people around and I would actuallytake quite a while to start some conversations going!Sometimes by the time the meeting or the party would come to a close..! This behaviour somehow from a third person stand point comes out as being haughty,rude or an introvert.Well I do respect these views and I am just working on how I carry myself aorund in public...But let me concede - changing some of your personality traits are quite a challenge!

Coming to the point of having a handsome personality .. ..Well I cannot do anything much about what I look cause I am what I am..WUSIWUG :)

Talent is one area again where I feel I have let myself down.I used to be good at hockey and playing a musical instrument.I was blessed with amazing parents who encouraged me to take up everyother extra curricular activity that I wanted to part of.But then I think I squandered those opportunites somewhere down the line compromising it with studies or work depending on the stage of my life.So thatz it about talent and things remain half baked.Jack of a few trades and master of none.

Added to this
I dont dance,dont drink and dont drive a stylish vehicle!
(I thought these would be the requirements for a modern day man!)

Now if you are still wondering why i wrote all this in my blog ??Oh the reason is just simple.I was just trying to reason out why I was still single(cause many of friends from time to time have intrigued me with these questions:

A: Machan enna machan set pannitiya??(Translated:Have you found somebody!?)
B: dai any luck with babes??
C: Enna da US poi enna da ennum single?(Translated: U are in US and u still single??)

and the list continues..

My Answer to all the above questions have been ....(C'mon is it so difficult to guess now??)
And the reasons are pretty clear!.. I am at times my own villian :)

I think there is no place for reserved slow startes in this fast paced world that we are living in!

I thought this was nice way to get back to blogging :)